Ruined Orgasms

Here are some definitions of what constitutes a Ruined Orgasm - that is one that a cum denial fan like me might choose not to count as a Real orgasm!
I would like to credit these definitions to an edger/deny-er mate of mine "Rusty -- founder of the Yahoo Group Perv-wankers"

1. Dude pounds pussy, slams a fag's throat, or whacks his bone till he's right at the point of cummmming. Then he pulls out and stops ALL stim, letting it throb & pump into mid-air.Some or even all of his load may spurt or ooze out, ending with a pathetic dribble. The orgasm is "ruined" cause at the very moment that his cock wants -- NEEDS -- total max stimulation, it gets . . . n o t h i n g.

2. When cumming, after 1 or 2 spurts, dude FORCES himself by sheer will-power and internal muscular control to stop the ejac. Most of the cumm-load is retained. Pressure to shoot is infinitely increased. This type of RO, IMHO, is by far the WORST. This technique results in the most SUPREME EDGE by far. You could go insane.

3. The dude's partner grabs the base of the dude's cock just as he shoots and clamps it shut forcing the cumm-load back up into his bladder. Or forces him to cumm with a sound filling & blocking his piss-tube. Ouch! (CAUTION -- this one can cause permanent injury.)

4. The top gives dude a painful distracting stim just as he shoots to supress or weaken the ejac -- a sharp SMACK in the balls, a wrenching nipple tweak, a slap in the face (or on his dick head, HARD), a JOLT of electro-stim to a sensitive body part. You get the idea.

5. Any technique or timing that prevents you from cumming in full, just the way you please, resulting in reduced enjoyment and/or fewer ejac spasms and/or a reduced cumm-load (though perhaps resulting in heightened lust & urgent need to shoot more or shoot AGAIN, . . . SOON!).

6. Some people, especially those new to the scene or "dabblers" refer to getting a dude really close to cumming and then backing off as an RO. Amateurs! We, of course, know this as Edging or Brinking, pursue it as a full-time avocation or career, and never confuse it with the Ruined Orgasm. It is after all, no orgasm at all, the very definition of Edging & Denial.

7. Total OVER-stimulation when cumming produces an excruciatingly Ruined Orgasm! The victim has been teased and edged repeatedly, perhaps for hours (days? WEEKS!!!), then when he is finally allowed to BLOW HIS LOAD his relief is only sweet for the briefest moment because the controller KEEPS RIGHT ON STROKING! If he is uncut, this is the point at which the foreskin is pulled all the way back and total firm stim is applied full force to the exposed head of his just-cummed cock. The rubbing, pulling, and tugging DOES NOT STOP until he has shot a 2nd (or 3rd!) load and/or until he has passed out.

8. Cumming suddenly whilst masturbating and stroking continuously, without warning and with no orgasm sensation or anything, and really watery cum.
This is an ejaculation-like expulsion of accumulated precum from the Cowper's Gland (or the seminal vesicles). The full ejaculatory mechanism that kicks in the enzymes that thicken & whiten a true cumm-load and empty out the prostate are not operating. Not a true ejac. No harm, no foul (if your counting uncummed days). An amazing sensation & a surprising event. It is an RO in a sense -- you wanna cumm bad, it feels sorta like you're cumming, but no real cumm comes out. Frustrating.